Sunday, September 05, 2010

last post before going back for raya

about 9 hours from now kot... yay! seronok.. my roomate suma da balik.. tinggal me n 1 of my housemate.. luckily, her friend tumpang sekali. tak lah sunyi sangat.. what everpun, saya bakal tido sorang2 malam nih.. insyaAllah tak de pape.. heheh...

hujan weh... soaked gila hari ni... mood untuk absorb knowledge pun tak berfungsi... hehehe.. alasan semata kan? bosan gila... n boley tak masih berada dalam mood *soaked* lagi walaupun hujan telah berhenti? hehehe... my clothes basuh semalam.. but hujan yang menggila telah melembabkan baju... n i'm going home tomorrow kot? mana mau sumbat semua baju tu? aiyooo~~~~

Pn Mama telah call tadi.. tanya esok sampai pukul berapa? and i told her i'm going home by bus 9 o' clock tomorow morning. well actually, she didn't really trust bus during this kind of occasion. but ma, kalu ajal, kat mana2 pun boley.. just pray i'll be having a safe journey k? we discussing aout nak balik beraya ke rumah nenda di Kuala Kangsar. hehehe.. ntah lah.. my dad, he didn't get enough holiday for us to plan to "balik kampung" to both kampung. as always, every year pun balik kampung wan di selangor juga... is that a "husband mandatory culture"?

i wonder if i married in the future i'll be able to be like my mum... even sometimes she merungut gak because jarang first day kat her mom's house, but she still follow my father balik kampung for raya... it can be counted berapa sangatlah dirumah pah... we always be there at 2nd or 3rd day raya

besides, kampung wan is much nearer to our house. we in seremban. if my father drives, it takes only an hour utk sampai Jeram (Kuala Selangor) from Seremban. if i drive? err...

as a child, i know i shouldn't be prejudice. my ears always "willingly" to hear from both side. i understand why if my father he always have to look after her mom a.k.a my grandma. as a "first" child, and a man, he need to. unlike us women. after married, suda jadi hak suami sepenuhnya (correct me if i'm wrong). but, kalulah takde si ibu n bapak yang melahirkan, dapat ke si suami memiliki si isteri? wah ter-emo plak. so buat bakal2 suami... jangan lah menggunakan kuasa veto anda bila tiba raya ni ye..hihihi

but according to a story i heard before, ada seorang wanita ni, dia kematian bapa. suaminya pula pergi berperang. dia tak pergi tgk majlis kematian bapa dia ni sebab dia takut tak dapat izin suami dia. sampai lah akhirnya bapak dia mati baru si suami pulang. bila si suami pulang, dia terbau bau harum sangat... lalu dia bertanya kat isteri dia apa yang dia buat... n si isteri pun bagi lah tau yang bapanye meninggal n dia cerita lah semua. tak ley cita abes larr sebab tak sure sangat apa yang berlaku.

tapi dapat disimpulkan, yang isteri memang kena dengar ckp suami.. means kalu my mum nak balik kampung, she has to ask my father permission lar... but my father memang bagi pun sampai dia nak belikan tiket dah... ehheehhe.. ok la tu kan?

eh tercerita lebey2 plak..kui kui kui. tak sabarnye mau pulang.. heheh... rindulah rumah.. homesick dah.. ngeh3...

well i ada stoy nak cite tadi, but tak ingat nak cita apa...

till then...daaa~

selamat hari raya semua.. maaf zahir dan batin..ngee~

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